6 Kinky Sex Acts That May Actually Be Good for You

6 Kinky Sex Acts That May Actually Be Good for You

The term, “normal,” is an understatement when it comes to sex. Surprisingly, there is no right or wrong in terms of matters between the sheets. Of course, there are general rules, such as sex should be consensual and keeping the communication lines open. Apart from this, what goes on inside the bedroom will always depend on your personal choice – and whether or not she approves of it.

However, there are certain sexual practices that are frowned upon by people who were at their teenage years during 1920. Never mind. You don’t need their opinion just to have the best sex of your life. Believe it or not, there are acts you do in bed that are actually good for you.

So, before you worry about what other people will think, here are six freaky sex acts that are good for you and your health, well, at least according to medical science.

1. Polyamory For Stronger Relationships

Stronger RelationshipsTo start with, polyamory is a fancy word for open relationship. It is a type of setup where you and your girl want to do something different to keep the fire burning and actually invite other people join you in your relationship.

But hey, you still love your girl, so all is well. It’s just that you want some variation and she wants it too, hence, polyamory.

Not many people approve of this type of setup. First, it defies what a real relationship is all about. Second, a relationship is about two people becoming one, not two people who want to add more into their circle. Lastly, it just seems so wrong and so weird to be kissing other people while your wife approves.

Apparently, Science says polyamorous relationships are the best types of relationships. It brews open communication, which is an important ingredient in making a relationship work. Yes, people in this type of relationship talk all the time, since they need to set some ground rules to make sure that every act is acceptable. So there. The more you communicate, the better your relationship is, at least according to science. This is what makes polyamory even more special.

2. BDSM Can Lead To Better Psychological Health

You don’t understand why your girl is raving so much about Fifty Shades of Grey. You decided to check it out and find out what’s so special with this. Then you encountered dominant-submissive, bondage and more kinky sex acts. In other words, BDSM. Admit it, guys. You secretly want to try out bondage and discipline, and sadism and masochism, aka BDSM. However, you are too afraid to open it up to your girl because you don’t want her to think that you’re crazy. After all, isn’t it a mental disorder?

BDSMNot really. In fact, the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, or the psychiatrist’s bible, did not even list BDSM as a mental disorder.

What’s even weirder is that there are studies that show couples who are into BDSM are psychologically healthier than those who stick to vanilla sex.

Yes, you read that right. Based on studies, BDSM practitioners don’t appear troubled compared to the general population. In fact, they are more extroverted and open to new experiences, thereby reporting higher levels of well-being. More so, they are also less neurotic, which means they are less anxious most of the time. Even more surprising is that couples who resort to BDSM feel more secured than their “boring” counterparts do.

As to why the results showed this, well, it’s still a big mystery to the experts. Let’s just put it this way. BDSM are psychologically healthier than the rest. Leave it at that.

3. Masturbating At Work Is Good

Hmm, this seems too much to handle, don’t you think? When you think of the word masturbate, you picture doing it somewhere more private with less distractions. Plus, you don’t want to get caught jerking off by your boss in the middle of the day, do you?

MasturbatingTo begin with, masturbation has tons of benefits – don’t argue with that anymore. Aside from protecting you against prostate cancer, it actually helps you improve your mood, which eventually makes you happy and yes, allows you to live longer.

Once you are happy and, uhh, pleasured down there, you tend to be more productive, which can actually help save America’s economy, because you are doing your job properly and with a smile on your face.

So, what do you think is the simplest and cheapest way to be happy? Masturbate, of course. It’s free, it helps you feel good and apparently, you can do it anytime, anywhere, even under your desk while everyone else is having his or her coffee break. A piece of advice, though. Please make sure to lock the doors or at least be discreet about it. Nobody wants to see your fly open, with your man standing up and the whole floor smelling like Mr. Clean. If it’s not too much, do it in the bathroom.

4. Casual Sex Can Be Good

Okay, scratch that. It’s actually awesome. According to old folks, casual sex is bad and can give you herpes, or AIDS, or whatever deadly disease you can pass on to your future child in case you knocked someone out. In fact, that is the purpose of sex education in school – to remind youth to abstain in doing sexual activities until the right time comes.

Casual SexWhich can be a little confusing, since how will you know if the right girl is the one? Well, if you know, you know, right – and that doesn’t even make sense.

Anyway, it turns out that casual sex, especially when done for the right reasons, can be good for your overall well-being. What do right reasons mean? Well, three things. Casual sex must be done for pure fun and enjoyment, to help you explore and learn about your sexuality and to be treated as an important experience.

On the other hand, if you think of casual sex simply to make you feel better, or to please someone, or to get revenge or a favor, then believe it or not, your mental health suffers, too.

What’s the point of all this? Casual sex is good; however, make sure to do it for the right reasons to help you improve your overall well-being. And yes, don’t forget to use protection. You don’t want to catch that dreaded STD, do you?

5. Having Sex On Red Days Can Help Women Relieve Menstrual Cramps

Okay. There is a reason why most dudes prefer having sex with a girl without her tampons preventing blood flow. Just think about this. Do you want to have sex with someone that makes it look like you killed her because blood is all over the place? Of course not, right?

Having SexBut if you decide to play the role of a Good Samaritan, then go ahead and have sex with a woman while she’s painting the town red – literally speaking. There is actually something good out of this act.

It turns out that having sex during menstruation is safe. This means without condoms, you most likely can’t get someone pregnant, but you should still be careful, just in case.

Second, having sex during red days helps women ease the symptoms of PMS, including menstrual cramps, so that’s two points. It turns out that orgasms during red days provide a soothing internal massage to ease pain down there that comes with menstruation.

And yes, orgasms release happy hormones, aka endorphins, natural painkillers and mood enhancers to help women soothe symptoms associated with their period. Three points. If you plan to play the good guy role, please stay away from oral sex. And yes, wear condoms. Her blood on your penis is not exactly a turn on.

6. Role-Play = Better Relationship

For sure you dreamed to be a doctor, lawyer, scientist and even astronaut when you were younger. However, not all hopes and dreams are meant to happen, right?

Apparently not.

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This is where role-playing comes in. It allows you to be someone else for a few hours and have the best night of your life.

However, not everyone is open to the idea, because either they can’t act, or it’s simply not their thing. Or, they don’t want to be labeled as having a twisted mind.

Here’s the truth: role-playing increases one’s confidence outside the bedroom. Yes, it is sexy, but more than that, it can build greater connection with your partner and keeps things fresh and exciting in the relationship. At the same time, it reduces any inhibitions, both in and out of the bedroom, which can be a good thing, right?

It may take a lot of push and convincing since role-playing means being in character and owning it. Just take it slow and eventually, you’ll add this type of play in the sexual menu.

It turns out that there is no such thing as normal when it comes to sex. So before you judge someone for their kinky sex acts, remember that there is a scientific explanation behind it. Surprising as it may sound, it can lead to overall well-being, too.