Porn Problems: 12 Real Reasons Men Should Stop Watching Fake Sex

Jul 31
Real Reasons Men Should Stop Watching Fake Sex

Porn – pornography, adult literature, X-rated film, art – it may be called different things by different people, but it still shows the same thing: sex. Why do some men love porn? Simple – It’s because this is the perfect venue to relive your sexual fantasies, even if you’re not the one getting lucky. Have you seen a porn site lately? It’s filled with all these categories based on what you prefer: the age, the color, the sexual preference and yes, BDSM is involved, too.
You're just watchingYou’re just watching two porn stars get some hot action. All of that through a small screen that you keep to yourself because of the fear that someone might hear or find out what you are doing. Well, there are also some who are not ashamed at all to let the whole world know they’re watching porn. Why should you be ashamed to watch something that interests you, right?
Here’s the thing: porn is bad for you. It does not get simpler or more complicated than that. There are certain levels of watching porn. If you’re on the regular-subscriber to bordering-addiction level, you might need to re-evaluate yourself with these 12 reasons why you should stop watching fake sex:

1. Porn Will Use Up Your Energy

gives you these ideasThe act of watching pornography has one objective. That is to turn you on and make you want to pleasure yourself sometime during or after watching.
Porn stimulates your thoughts and gives you these ideas of how to bring yourself to orgasmic pleasure. To put it simply, porn will make you masturbate.
Let’s just say porn will turn you on and make you want to have sex a lot. While the idea sounds tempting, you know that ejaculating more than once every day can wear you out. It’s basically a chain reaction. That is why watching too much porn will use up your energy.

2. Porn Will Make You Insecure Of Yourself

scandalsFirst of all, porn is fake sex. Unless it’s one of those sex scandals that go viral in the internet, everything about a porn film is scripted from the first scene to the last.
But if you notice, and if you compare, porn films have stars that have ridiculously awesome bodies and impossibly large tools on them. These hot secretaries and feisty teachers are paid to be sexy, and to have cosmetic surgery, too.
Now take all that and put it in your reality. You would think: I will never get a body like that. I will never get a penis as big as that. Well, you are not supposed to, because these people make their living by having these bodies. There goes your self-confidence.

3. Porn Can Lead to Performance Issues

a study has been conductedBefore you react and say that this is ridiculous, just know that a study has been conducted on men who watch porn frequently and men who watch it once in a while.
No surprise here, men who watch porn regularly have higher risks of erectile problems than those who seldom watch.
While the two are not directly correlated, it is traced back to the idea that if you watch porn, you end up masturbating and ejaculating. Too much masturbation can eventually lead to erectile problems.

4. Porn May Decrease Your Sexual Appetite

You're probably thinkingYou’re probably thinking: how? When watching porn is exactly why your sexual appetite is on a high. Actually, in the long run, it will have an opposite effect to your sex life. Here’s the thing.
With all the insecurities that you will feel because of not getting the same body and the same penis size as these porn stars have, and with all the hand action that you will most probably get from watching too much of these porn films, you will grow tired of sex in general.
You would tell yourself that you are getting enough action already. That’s how your sex life will crumble down and your sexual appetite will eventually decrease.

5. Porn Can Make You Stop Having Sex Altogether

Make You StopWith all the high expectations that you have for sex and all the insecurities about your body that will grow, you will eventually have sex less and less.
Then you’ll tell yourself that you can live your fantasies more when watching porn than doing the actual deed. So, you end up abstaining from sex altogether and just focus your sex life on your hands and on the films that you watch. That’s just sad.

6. Porn Will Make You Masturbate – A Lot

watching porn for research purposesIf it’s not yet very obvious, let’s clear things for you. You watch porn and even with the most innocent of reasons like, let’s say you’re just doing it for research purposes.
Of course, no one will actually believe that you are watching porn for research purposes, but let’s just say that you are. Whatever reason you have, watching porn will stimulate your mind and give you ideas about sex. To put it plainly, it will turn you on.

How do you cure an erection? If you don’t have a partner beside you, the closest thing is your hand. Now, let’s say you watch porn a lot. That means you are most likely to masturbate a lot, too.

7. Porn Can Make You Lose Your Self Control And Will power

WatchingYou have to admit, the sex positions and techniques in foreplay that some porn stars do are bordering crazy, really. Watching these things over and over will make you think that it’s okay to treat your partner that way.
It’s okay to slap her, and it’s okay to hurt her, because it’s giving her pleasure. Then there goes your self-control and your will power, which could very well end up in a mess.

8. Porn May Drop Your Testosterone Levels

Drop Your Testosterone LevelsAt first it may feel like you are at the hype of your sex life. Your testosterone levels could increase because of all the orgasm that you are getting.
But then, as what frequent ejaculation tends to do to your reproductive system, your testosterone level might start dropping.
This is because the testosterone production cannot compensate for the frequent ejaculations that you will have. If it can’t catch up, eventually your testosterone could be affected. Not good.

9. Porn Will Make You Appreciate Women Less

WomenJust like how watching the men porn stars will make you insecure of your body, watching these female porn stars with ridiculously hot bodies will make you start comparing the women you meet in real life.
This is especially true if you follow a certain porn star and idolize her like your favorite band.
You will start comparing. Then you will stop appreciating the real women that you have in your life.

10. Porn Will Give You Exaggerated Sex Expectations

the film is heavily editedThe mentality that if he can do it, so can you? That’s absurd. For one, male porn stars last more than an hour because the film is heavily edited. Also, they have these crazy sex positions that can break bones because – and again – the film is edited. But it gets you thinking that these are actions that you can do because, hey, you’re a guy. And after all, your ego is at stake.

11. Porn Can Download Viruses On Your Computer Or Phone

Viruses On Your ComputerThe internet is a vast space of knowledge and of deception, too. The scary thing about it is that these deceptions are made by our fellow humans, also.
That means they know what makes you tick, what would be the common interest of the general male population and what could catch your attention, and especially, what makes you have click on that link.
You’d be surprised that by the next day, your phone or computer won’t turn on anymore. It’s because the porn film that you downloaded had a virus and practically killed your computer.

12. Porn Could Make You Lazy

a messy homeA lot of negative things can happen to your personal life and personality if you watch porn a lot. One is that you will become lazy.
It’s because you end up bumming around in your room or in your house, not doing anything else, but fill you sexual fantasies with these porn flicks that you watch one after the other. The end result? Unwashed dishes, a dirty bedroom and a messy home.
Porn is everywhere these days. It is easily accessible to anyone who has a digital device and an internet connection. So you could say that it’s kind of hard to avoid it altogether. But cards are right there on the table. Would you really rather just watch someone else do it through a digital screen than going out and fulfilling your fantasies yourself?
It’s simple. Find yourself a partner and make her the object of your fantasy. That would be way, way better than just holing up in your room and watching marathon porn films that you know might never even happen to you in real life. It’s much healthier for you, too.

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